A hook-up buddy is just that: someone you have no feelings for who you bump uglies with from time to time. Someone always ends up catching feelings. It's practically inevitable. The moment you admit to feelings is the moment you relinquish your cool, DUH. So, how are you supposed to have any idea if the person you're regularly banging wants something more?
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And when it's definitely not a good idea—ever. So we totally get it if you find yourself thinking about having a no-strings-attached quickie with your former partner. The appeal is obvious: You two already know each other, and it's easy to slide back into the sexual rhythm you used to enjoy. It happens, sure, but the odds are against you.
To risk stating the obvious, some guys are only interested in hooking up. He only talks about how you look. He wants to stay in. However, most guys think there will be a better chance of the night ending in something if you never leave home in the first place. His hands are busy.
Now the big question: Does he want to date you or just hook up? Guys tend to make their intentions fairly obvious with their actions. In that area, guys are just as confusing as women.