Well let me put your mind at ease. They pretty much have one trick going for them. Not much more to it. Like I said, not an evil genius. Kind of just a really simple technique that works on some women.
She catches your eye, and you approach her. The conversation goes well, you connect, and she seems to embody everything you value in a woman. You get her number and plan out the first date. Of course, the first date goes well too. The conversation flows, and it seems like she is as awesome as you first thought. You start visualizing a future with this girl. You think of all the fun things the two of you can do together, the places you can go, the adventures you can have….
I know the feeling, it's feeling bad and suffering. You don't understand why she treats you so different each time. When she treats you good, closely and nicely, you feel she likes you. But then later, she treats you so bad and even teases you, you wish to know what's happening right now.
Sign up for the Divorced Girl Smiling newsletter to receive weekly articles that might help you during and after your divorce! I can still remember how I felt several years ago when I was dating a guy who was hot and cold. On our first date, he took me to a really nice restaurant where the ambience was romantic, the wine was expensive and the sparks were flying between us.