Serious advice needed - mean comments are not! Im a 27 year old woman, and although 27 isnt 'old' by any standard, I dont look my age - I do look as if Im in my early 20's. There is a guy that I am quite interested in, and the feeling is mutual. I just want some general idea as to whether society is still in that place where women should only date men their age or preferably a bit older than them? This guy is pretty wonderful, and not immature at all. A complicating factor - he was student of mine - Im a junior lecturer.
I had a game I liked to play with this younger guy, a hilarious invention of my own called "Is He Dead? What, after all, had he done? A lot of us have found ourselves attracted to somebody younger or older, and have been reluctant to act on it because of some perceived weirdness or taboo. This kind of culling is even easier now that dating sites let us whittle our options down to the year. I contend that as long as nobody is being willfully creepy I see you, guys in Ferrari hats , this kind of limitation is mega lame. I know many smoking-hot middle-aged people who are emotional teenagers.
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I think its totally fine. IMO, after both parties are 21, a 6 year difference is nothing. Plus if they're both immature, then it sounds like they're perfect for each other! If you feel that he is only using her, then consider telling her.
I have a particular interest in health, spirituality, fitness, and the mind-body connection. Older men can have sophisticated tastes; are you ready for that? Dylan Mcleod via Unsplash Public Domain. We all remember when year-old Ashley Olsen made headlines for reportedly dating year-old Bennett Miller, the director of Moneyball. And yes, I know some younger men date older women.