My high school coach taught sex ed. Keep it in your pants. Yet, we are all supposed to somehow know all about it. And, we succumb to societal pressure to pass white glove tests at all times of the day.
My first time bottoming was a nightmare come to life. I was in pain the entire time, not to mention super self-conscious about my partner being all up in my rear end. If you're not familiar with the term, "bottoming" refers to being on the receiving end of anal sex, meaning the "bottom" is the partner putting the penis or dildo inside of them. The person sticking said penis or dildo inside the bottom is referred to as the "top. How do so many men—gay, bi, and straight—derive pleasure from having a penis or dildo inside of them? Eventually, I had a girlfriend who got me into it.