I am not dating. I've been divorced for over six years now, and I'm not in a relationship. I'm not looking to be in one, either. There have been a few beaus, a couple more serious than the others, some purely physical.
Your situation does sound awful. Given how devastated you seem, I recommend seeking out counseling — a good therapist can give you coping strategies. Getting through the divorce will help too. When can while be a huge help.
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As a countermeasure, many men deceptively list their marital status as divorced instead of separated in order to avoid this inevitable kiss of death. Separated women, however, play by a much different set of rules. They know well from their own experience the emotional roller coaster the divorce process brings, and that separated women may not be ready for a serious relationship despite truly believing they are. Sexual freedom. Remember the girl who lived in your dorm during freshman year of college, the one who grew up with strict parents?